It's Easy, Not Cheesy to Be Romantic in Your Relationship

Ok you are who you are? Often I am told by couples, that they aren't romantic, don't need to be, often they claim they don't have time or money for romance or really feel silly being romantic with each other. It's a bit cruel but I like to then ask them why are they seeking my services as a relationship coach?

It's Easy, Not Cheesy to Be Romantic in Your Relationship

If being in a relationship is important to them, then why I ask, are they resistant to the thought of showing their partner how much they love them? Secretly, I feel in today's modern society we have all got a little over exposed or even over whelmed with "being romantic" & Hollywood hasn't helped. Take a movie like "Pretty Woman" where the multi millionaire sweeps the girl off her feet with a date starting with jewels, a private jet and the opera. How could we ever match that?

So allow me to put together a few easy and simple romantic tips that will help normal couples get into a habit because ultimately its the habit of being romantic that we want to develop.

Romantic Tip 1. Practice "Even-Day/Odd-Day" Romance:

On even days it's your turn to be romantic, and on odd days it's your partner's turn. It can be as easy as a compliment to your partner or an extra (seven seconds) hug.

Romantic Tip 2. Become Friends with your florist:

Purchase the occasional gift basket, stuffed toy or the old faithful rose petals, Sprinkle them on the bed, bath or corridor. (however please note you are in charge of cleaning them up afterwards too)

Romantic Tip 3. Make your Mealtimes magical. (Yes, even with the kids)

Jazz up the presentation of a special meal? Buy a little hunk of dry ice. place it in a bowl of water on the table. You'll create wondrous, billowing white clouds!

Dress up for dinner at home. Find some italian music and have in playing in the background. (turn the tv off)

Take a walk after dinner: Leisurely stroll through a local park or public garden.

If on a budget - stay in but have dinner-for-two prepared in your home by the best chef in town or go out for Dessert or Coffee afterwards.

Romantic Tip 4. Make a New Year's resolution to be a more creative with romantic, to have more time for romance or to organize the budget to include some romance cash.

Romantic Tip 5. Make romantic plans for your next anniversary, st valentines day, birthdays or your next vacation:

For most women, birthdays are not our favorite day of the year,as we are reminded that we are getting older so gentleman make sure you think of many compliments and reassurance of how beautiful she is to you.

So set a Relationship Goal today to start, with one step at a time, even if you have to set a goal, to do one easy romantic unexpected thing in your relationship this month. Then plan for two the next month.

I guarantee you and your partner will discover, romance and the added benefits are easier and more rewarding than you thought.

Kerre Burley is an international keynote speaker who lives in Hoi An, Vietnam. Kerre is in huge demand as a platform speaker on topics from Relationships, business management to laughter therapy.

Kerre provides a perfect environment for strengthening or rebuilding existing relationships with agreement on creating new relationship beliefs and values, through her Relationship R& R Package Holidays. Coaching & guiding couples in crisis with new strategies, actions and outcomes to solidify a couples bonds, vows and future together.

Kerre also conducts premarital counseling, wedding ceremonies and vow renewal services to couples in Vietnam from around the world. She has been happily married for 20 years to her second husband Peter.

Discover Kerre's secret tips to Romancing & Reconnecting By visiting her website []
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