This passage from the Holy Scriptures informs us that man has an inherent need for a life mate, yet the fundamental elements of this desire change through time and across different nations and subcultures. However, some individuals have a tendency to get hopelessly passionate in their search for their soul mates, to the point where their circumstances worsen than anticipated.
Going crazy for being married, or even just a boyfriend or girlfriend, has characteristics that are comparable to those of a human being. The exact component to which a given reason is tied determines whether it is good or negative.
Some women think of themselves as "damsels in distress" who require "knights in shining armor." These ladies seek tall, mature-looking, hefty males who are bodyguard material, according to contemporary lingo. They imagine themselves to be Adele or Whitney Houston from "The Bodyguard." In other words, these women want men to stand by their sides the majority of the time, if not always.
When two people are physically or virtually present in one other's eyes, an intimate relationship might begin (over the Web). On the other hand, it's not really healthy for you and your relationship to require too much physical presence from your spouse.
An excessive craving for someone's physical presence can harm a person's mental health, regardless of whether they are in a relationship or not. Beyond physical reliance on a spouse or potential partner, fixation can also manifest as a person stalking the other and feeling threatened by everybody the latter meets, including close family members. If the individual is already in a relationship, they may start to manipulate their spouse in all ways.
Hopeless romantics frequently exhibit behaviors and responses that are difficult for them to understand or defend. Jealousy is the most prevalent emotional symptom among them, and in certain cultures—particularly those of Latino and Asian descent—it is partly acceptable since people believe that it is a natural element of being in an intimate relationship. On the other hand, it would not be typical for a single individual to feel envious of their potential romantic partner. Such a person frequently criticizes everyone they interact with, even close relatives, in person, over the phone, and/or on social media.
Desperation for a life mate has important linkages between its physical, mental, and emotional elements. A person who is reliant, obsessed with, and envious of the person they "love" is like a lovebird without a mate. Lovebirds were created to live in pairs, and in certain pairings, if one bird passes away, the other would respond poorly to the circumstance and pass away as well. Humans are not and should not be in a relationship since they have the intrinsic ability to learn how to live independently and make strong bonds with others. If they did this, they would develop healthy partnerships.
Wealth sharing is one of the fundamental tenets of marriage, but it is not an ideal or even a good enough justification for entering into a committed partnership. Furthermore, a person's life partner shouldn't be chosen based solely or even mostly on their level of income.
A social climber is someone who prefers to live with someone of a high socioeconomic status (such as an A-list celebrity, politician, or high roller). People from lower to middle class participate in social climbing primarily to "climb" up the socioeconomic ladder; connections forged through social climbing typically lack closeness. The main objective of most marriages between two individuals with high socioeconomic levels is to maintain the riches and prestige of themselves and their families, hence these marriages typically lack intimacy.
The social component of badly wanting to be married or be in a relationship is the hardest. One of the worst things that can happen to a marriage or relationship is peer pressure, and the social deadline is the most prevalent type of peer pressure. It is a common misconception that males should wait to get married until they are in their 30s and women should get married in their 20s to reduce their chances of remaining single forever. Additionally, the media has (either mistakenly or purposely) encouraged adolescents to engage in romantic relationships at an early age, which has resulted in teen pregnancies, some of which result in termination.
In conclusion, the need for SECURITY in all areas is the main driver behind some people's frantic desire to wed or enter a committed relationship. Hopeless romantics often develop a dependency on other people, become quickly enraged and freak out when bad things occur, and become easily frustrated with the "norms" of the outside world. They believe that getting into a "perfect" relationship and committing to a "ideal" marriage—a not-so-good "idea"—will help them deal with these problems the best. Hopeless romantics who lack self-security have low self-esteem and inferiority complexes as a result.
The best method to handle a hopeless romantic is to help him or her recognize that the route to love is the wrong one - a straightforward but challenging task. It is important to seek expert assistance while dealing with this situation since, as the saying goes, "It is very hard to rescue someone who does not actually want to get rescued."