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The Relationship Panorama: Macho Males, Feminism, Divorces, And Personal Ambitions

Marriage and family life are the biggest inventions by humanity, for its social life; which put humanity at a higher pedestal, compared to other species. In democracy, people follow their leaders, who are more often than not, slave to sensual desires. Success in relationships demands: tolerance of others' views, accepting feminism, and striking a balance between personal ambitions and family life.

The Relationship Panorama: Macho Males, Feminism, Divorces, And Personal Ambitions


A joke, I never laughed at

1. As a child, I read a joke - a satire on Occidental culture:

* A better-half calls her husband - both divorced earlier: "Come quickly. Your children, and my children are beating our children."

* Now-a-days, Oriental people are equally successful, and follow such stories in their lives.

Godly relations and man-made relations

2. It was a celebrity couple. Both were career conscious; thus they had to stay away from each other, quite often. The outcome -

divorce! The relationship takes a backseat; personal ambitions take priority.

* She was an adventurous lady, who joined an expedition to the highest lake in the world. Unfortunately, there was a landslide due to heavy rains, and she was among dead.

* Only her daughter went there! Godly relations stay permanent. They can't and will never desert each other.

Divorces all around!

3. Another celebrity couple, were divorced due to: ego clashes and excessive drinking by the husband. The wife looked after two daughters, who were equally successful in the glamorous world. The daughters are close to the mother, and the father is isolated in the family. One daughter is already divorced. Second daughter has married a divorced person.

* In the past, divorced persons were a minuscule minority in Oriental countries.

Male macho

4. In Oriental societies, family planning implies: invariably, wife's tubectomy is done during delivery. The husbands always think: vasectomy will affect his manhood, and avoid it.

* In case of a divorce, the courts normally favour the custody of children to the mother. The husband, after divorce can be a father again, if vasectomy is not done.

* In case the spouse dies, the husband - if without vasectomy - can become a father, when he marries again. Thus in Oriental countries, tubectomy is more popular, and vasectomy is avoided.

Relationship middle


Our stalwarts

In India, a 90 years old, successful politician - ex-Governor, and ex-Chief Minister - had to undergo a DNA test, as a youngster claimed to be his son out of an adulterous relationship, and proved it successfully.

* We know: couple of Presidents, a potential President of a developed nation, a Prime Minister, a Governor and a top professional player, who couldn't control their sensual desires. Some of them survived politically. as in their societies perjury is an offence, but illicit relationship between consenting individuals is not. But they lost the harmony in their lives, and the spouse in most of the cases.

Lessons we can learn

* Don't be a slave to sensual desires, and indulge in adultery, for harmony in the family life.

* Develop ' tolerance', and avoid ego clashes with your spouse.

* Feminism is there to stay. If you are a macho male, please see the writing on the wall.

* Optimise personal ambitions and warmth in relationships in your life. We need both in a home.

* A divorce seldom solves a problem.


Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/expert/Charanjit_Singh_Arora/1394102

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