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What Do You Want From a Love Relationship

I have the privilege of knowing quite a few brilliant people. Through conversations with them, I am able to express some of my most complicated and important thoughts. Last month I was speaking with Linda. She has a Ph.D. in Leadership and Organization and is an educator and life and executive coach. And she has an enormous amount of experience as a professional, especially at a high level.



On this particular day, she and I were talking about relationships. She asked me what I wanted from a woman. After I answered, she thought the conversation was worthy of sharing with others who struggle with making relationships work. Part of the conversation went like this:

What Do You Want From a Love Relationship?
Ted: In an intimate relationship, a woman should just give a man what he wants. If she gives him what he wants, the relationship will most likely work.

Linda: What about the woman? What about the man giving her what she wants? Sometimes it is difficult to communicate what a woman wants …

Who's Your Valentine?

As we approach February 14th it is time to think about relationships and their meaning.

Ponder the following:



1. Most people spend more time shopping for a new vehicle than finding a partner. Slow down and consider what you need and can offer before you commit.

2. Dating is way of determining whether you are compatible but does not guarantee long-term happiness, especially if you aren't being honest with yourself about what you need.

3. Going from dating to common-law in a short period of time is risky. Determine to date for a year without living together so that you can see how the other person deals with holidays, seasons and problems.

4. The "honeymoon" stage doesn't last long. What used to be "cute" can become "annoying", especially when the bills come in, the career is stressful and illness shows up.

5. Maturity and good mental health practices offer more stability for a partnership than physical attractiveness. Do good trumps look good!

Is He Right for Me? Ask the Love Psychic: The 5 P's of Love That Last a Lifetime

I am sure you have heard several stories about women who fall for a guy and after a few months into the relationship realize that he wasn't the right one and that's the time when everything becomes just too hard to handle.

So I am guessing that you are reading this article because you are stuck in a mental cycle of confusion and aren't sure whether the man you are with is even right for you or not.



Is he right for me? How do I know? Am I wasting my time? Will he love me forever, or is he waiting for someone better to come along? What are the signs that he cares about me, as much as I care about him? How can I gauge his commitment level? Where do I fall on the totem pole of what's MOST important to him?

Any of these questions sound familiar? If you are anything like the tens of thousands of women who have enjoyed our articles on love, romance, and spiritual soul mates... the truth is, we are ALL a little bit insecure about our relationships. And as intuitive empaths, w…

12 Zodiac Sign Dating Tips

For more than an eon, the twelve zodiac signs have been known to us. Zodiac signs often guide folks in their activities and social doings. You'll see how exciting and useful the principles behind the zodiac can be for social activities, like dating. The following are dating suggestions utilizing the signs of the zodiac.



12 Zodiac Sign Dating Tips :
1. Get the attention of an Aries by securing great seats or backstage concert access.

Aries folks tend to seek attention and appreciate special treatment These people really enjoy big events and glamorous occasions such as dances, vaudeville shows and film festivals. Watching sporting events and competitions are another thing Aries enjoy because they get involved with watching competitions and seeing how brave people are.

2. Invite Taurus out for food or prepare a home cooked meal for a picnic.

The Taurus loves food, whether it's gourmet cuisine or comfort food at home. A Taurus will take you up on an invitation to just about any res…

15 Remarkable Qualities That Mean She May Be Mrs. Right

What makes the perfect woman? Is she a Martha Stewart replica ironing your shirts flawlessly while blueberry flax seed muffins are baking in the oven? Perhaps she's a supermodel with a picture-perfect body. Well the truth is, neither of these are true. Most guys are just looking for their perfect match. It can be hard to know if the person standing beside you is the one. You could trust your gut, but statistics show our guts are wrong at least fifty percent of the time.



Here are 15 remarkable qualities that mean she may be Mrs. Right and you should never let her go.

1. She makes you want to be a better man. If you are suddenly caring about getting in shape or going out of your way for romantic gestures, she is bringing out the best in you.

2. She accepts your faults. Whether you forget to take the trash out or don't shower on weekends, this woman lets you be you. She doesn't try to make you her next fit-it project.

3. She is smart. A woman with brains will keep you interested…

20 Cute, Tiny Finger Tattoos for Girls Ideas

Getting a tattoo on your ring finger is a way to show your love for someone forever. Like a wedding ring, a ring finger tattoo may be used to symbolize a committed relationship. Unlike traditional jewelry rings, tattoos comfortably stay in place. Some people may get ring tattoos as a way to show friendship, as the saying goes, "friends forever," a tattoo last a lifetime.

Here are some fantastic choices to inspire you.


1. Three Small Dots Tattoo



2. Show of Your Love of Music



3. Simple Designs Finger Tattoo



4. Promise Tattoo



5. a Heart Tattoo



6. Your Wedding Date



7. Little Tiny Shell Tattoo




8. Perfect Wedding Band Tattoo



9. Ruler Markings Are Unique 



10. Ode to Your Family




11. Tiny Seascape Tattoo



12. Palm Tree Tattoo



13. Funny Finger Tattoo



14. Declare Your Love 



15. Itty Bitty Rosary Tattoo


9 Different Ways To Know If Your Partner Genuinely Loves You or Not

There are several ways that can actually help you to gauge how much your partner loves and cares for you. But the first and foremost thing is that it is important to know if they truly love you or not. Here are some of the ways that can help you to learn whether your lover truly loves you.




1. The person should not be selfish in bed: Ah well, this is the first and foremost thing that you need to take care of and observe carefully. Your partner should be extremely careful and take care of your likes and what actually turns you on or off. Your partner's motto should not be only sex and nothing else. rather he/she should understand what is good and what is bad for you. Your partner should be your best friend when in bed also.

2. Your partner will always stop you from doing anything that is irrational: Whenever you seem to do anything irrational, your partner who truly loves you from the core of his/her heart will always stop you from doing so.

3. He/She takes good care of you when you ha…

How to Find Love Again After a Breakup or Divorce - Understand The Psychology

So you are wondering how to find love again after a breakup. Don't worry, I will show you that finding love again is easier than what you might have thought.




How to find love again after divorce or a breakup
Tip #1. Accept that your past relationship is over

There is a psychological principle behind this. The recovery process won't happen until you accept your losses. This principle applies to all type of losses.

Let's suppose that you invest some money on stock market. For a whole year, whenever you check your shares you see that their prices are going down. You feel bad and you think that you should have invested your money somewhere else.

You feel bad about your losses on the stock market. One day you see that the stock market is crashed and you lost all of your money you invested. Tell me what you would do in this situation.

You may feel bad for a while, but thereafter you will try to find other ways to invest and raise your money.

The same thing happens when you inves…

He'll Look at You Differently If You Do This

Do you feel like you need to look a certain way in order to attract the right man for you - or get more attention from your current man?





You may believe that most men - especially the good looking and successful ones - only want women who look like runway models and don't want to settle for a woman who is considered average looking.

And you're so not alone. Millions of women think they don't fit their country's beauty standards.

As a woman who used to only see her flaws in the mirror, I say I hear and feel you darling.

And I'm also here to give you the good news: It's not true.

However here is what's true: If you deep down believe that you are not pretty enough, thin enough, tall enough, you'll often end up attracting people who would think the same about you.

You really don't need to be so hard and critical on the way you look anymore in order to have a man to love the way you look.

Here is what helped me and can turn things around for you too:

Cele…

Ways To Keep The Romance Alive

By keeping the romance alive in a relationship, you can ensure that your relationship passes the test of time and sees through even the most troublesome situations. Valentine's Day is the day to celebrate romance, but true romance lasts all through the year!




Let's now run through some ways which would work towards making you feel that you just started the relationship afresh!

1. BE APPRECIATIVE - EVERY SINGLE DAY!

From the break of dawn right to the twilight, innumerable opportunities to express ourselves come across our ways - why not make it a point to make the most of them?

Some nonverbal cues would express your love for your partner. Or you could go ahead with the combination of a wink, kiss and a smile!

2. A SURPRISE IN STORE!

When you do something special for your partner, it would make his/her day! A fine idea in this regard is leaving a note on the fridge or the shower.

You could go for a sexy voicemail! You could send a card to work.

Consider breakfast in bed or flowers…

50 Things Guys Wish Girls Knew

Men have for long been belittled by the fairer sex and have been quoted as being everything ranging from egotistical, stubborn and lacking in emotion. For the ladies out there, however, it may come to you as a surprise, or even a shock, that there is much more behind a man and there is much that your man might wish you could know better about him.



Yes, it is true that it might be quite a challenge for women to understand men. However, once you get to know a few of the "basics", it becomes much easier to understand a man. Well, there are some things that guys wish girls knew, and a few of these are listed below. Knowing these things and understanding them can go a long way in understanding a guy and building a better relationship with your man.

Things That Girls Should Know About Guys


Guys are more emotional than they appear to be. If they ever loved you at any point of time, it will take them much longer to let go of you than you think, and it hurts them immensely each moment …

Stop Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

From our early teens we all have our own idea of what love is; the one thing that is not in conflict is everyone begins searching for it. Is there a method to the madness of chasing something that for many seems elusive? Are you one of those people who always seem to feel you have somehow landed or fallen for the wrong person, leaving you on the hurting end of love? There are some guidelines that do more than make sense.



1) If you don't want a partner who drinks or parties, don't go to a bar, nightclub or racy party to meet one. Confine your serious search to workplaces, local gatherings, restaurants and other random opportunities.

2) If cheaters don't appeal to you, refuse to be involved with anyone who is cheating on someone else to be with you. If you attempt to fool yourself into believing they love you too much to do that, understand that is what their current partner thought. Cheaters cheat.

3) Hate deceitful people? Don't gloss over untruthful statements your pa…

Choosing the Right Time to Say, "I Love You"

If love frightens you because you have been hurt in the past, or you are worried about making a commitment, just for a few moments put those fears aside. With a fearless heart ask yourself where you are. What is your heart telling you? You see when it comes to affairs of the heart it is always best to go with the "heart."



Often there are sensory cues long before a person can utter the words "I love you." Brilliant minds can push love away because they tend to intellectualize feelings rather than allowing the feelings to guide. I believe it is a theory of quantum physics that you cannot deeply desire that which is not deeply desiring you. Human magnetic fields are strong. There are silent cues that are constantly being transmitted by all living beings.

Some people call them "vibes" others see it as a state of attraction. Actually we transmit intrinsic data fields on scalar waves like music being played. These morphogenic field transmissions are inaudible b…

Is It Love? Is It Abuse? Is It Neediness?

They met at the workplace and began dating. A few months later he moved in with her, to her own place. As a divorced man, having owned no property (he never told her whether he ever had one and whether he left it to his ex), he was happy for not having to extend a contract on a leased apartment.



So far so good: They were "in love". They dreamt about life together, "until death will do us part". They enjoyed coming back home after work, sitting on the bench, looking at the sunset, eating dinner together, with a good bottle of wine, night after night, as if they have done it for decades.

... And time went by. And they gotten used to each other - whatever "used" means. And they got accustomed to life's routine, life's structure together.

And then one day, out of the blue (or was it a stormy day?) he asked her if it will be o.k. that he'll bring his adult son to live with them; he is 20, unemployed at the moment. Would she mind?

We don't know …

How to Show Love - Giving to Those That Which You Wish to Receive

Why don't you turn the tide? Instead of expecting to receive something, be the first one to give. Nothing can compare to the feeling of joy and contentment once you see a person brimming with happiness after he or she receives your gift.

Humans nowadays are too attached to material possessions that they eventually forget to see the real beauty of life. The riches we acquired here on earth are something we cannot bring with us when we die. It is the laughter, the memories we have with each other that makes our existence worthwhile. It is quite saddening that we put too much weight on things that don't even matter.



We fail to realize the value of things that money can't buy.

Give to those people that which you wish to receive. Don't wait for them to give you something before you can actually show them your love. The Law of Cause and Effect tells us that anything that you send out into the universe will come back to you. You may not know it but you will soon get back the …

The Secrets to a Happy and Healthy Relationship

If you want to insure that your relationship stays healthy, be aware of what you contribute to it and how you can keep bringing new experiences to exchange with your partner. Following are three concepts you can focus on. They are being strong, committed, and flexible. Let's examine how each of these concepts can help you create your own wonderful relationship. These can be viewed as secrets, but great relationships are really works of love.



Having a happy relationship is totally worthwhile if you have strong convictions as to what you want your relationship to be. Being faithful to your mate and not letting anything come between you can be achieved with self-discipline and self-control. Without saying a word, by putting your partner's needs before your own makes a powerful statement.

Strengthening your commitment to each other through mutual responsibility for how your relationship functions is a by-product of not placing blame or finding fault with each other. The value of y…