Sometimes you mistake the man next to you for the love of your life, not realizing that he doesn't give you half the affection you give him and you should realize that.
It's time to open your eyes and take a good look at whether the man next to you is really the one you want to share the rest of your life with, maybe you are just wasting your time with someone who doesn't value you and gives you half-hearted affection. Recognize the 5 signs that this man is not the love of your life, you are confused and you must act immediately on the future of this relationship.
Do not fall into the wrong arms just for not wanting to be alone, thinking that you will not find someone else or for fear of facing your true feelings, we share with you the 5 signs that this man is not the love of your life, you are confused and you should get out of this relationship in which you are not happy and you just keep keeping up appearances.
Never confuse love with the need to be with a person by becoming dependent, if in your relationship you notice one or more of the following points, then you have to stop for a moment to reflect and listen to your heart, and ask yourself if it is with that man with whom you want to grow old and share all the experiences.
1. You doubt his love
You are insecure about his love, sometimes you think he loves you, other times you think he doesn't and that you are just wasting your time, you question if he will love you with the same intensity as you, and that comes from different actions that make you have that thorn in your side, there are many reasons why you get to question if his affection is sincere or if he is only with you for commitment.
2. He forgets important dates
he does not remember his birthday, his anniversary and even forgets your birthday, or if he remembers he is not even good enough to give you a rose or write you a nice message reminding you of such a special day, for him it seems to be just another date on the calendar and he says there is no need to tell you that he loves you or make you feel special because you already know you are.
3. He is not affectionate with you
To hear an "I love you" from his mouth? what hope. He never has nice words for you, he calls you by your name and not even on special days a compliment by mistake comes out, he is not affectionate either, he does not take you by the hand, he does not hug you and even less steals kisses from you, almost always you walk behind him or next to him, but as perfect strangers, they do not even look like a couple.
4. You have no plans in common
It is clear that there will always be differences between couples, but when there is love, it is about reaching an agreement and defining what is best for both, but when it is not the love of your life, both have different goals and neither is willing to give in, what you want for your future, sounds ridiculous to him, and what he wants, you do not consider it appropriate, so you will never be able to move forward as a couple.
5. He doesn't listen to your needs
He never has time for you and tells you that he doesn't want to waste time in your dramas or tantrums, what you have to tell him has no logic for him, he doesn't listen to what you want, he doesn't take you into account, you look like a zero to the left, so it's time for you to realize that a man like that can't be the love of your life, your ideal partner can't be the one who always ignores you.
